PERAN BP4 DALAM PEMBENTUKAN KELUARGA SAKINAH (Studi Analisis di KUA Kecamatan Ciamis Kabupaten Ciamis)

Siti Ulfah; Pepe Iswanto

Siti Ulfah Institut Agama Islam Darussalam (IAID) Ciamis, Indonesia
Pepe Iswanto Institut Agama Islam Darussalam (IAID) Ciamis, Indonesia

Abstract

The formation of a sakinah family is the essence of the purpose of marriage. The process of forming a sakinah family is not an easy thing, it needs sufficient knowledge, mental and material skills to build it. In addition, there needs to be support and participation from outside such as from related institutions, in this case BP4. The problems that arise are, first, what is the role of BP4 KUA in Ciamis District in forming sakinah families. Second, what are the obstacles for the Ciamis District BP4 KUA in forming a sakinah family. Third, what is the action of BP4 KUA Ciamis Subdistrict on the problems faced in forming a sakinah family. This research was conducted to determine the role of BP4 in forming sakinah families in KUA, Ciamis District, Ciamis Regency. Knowing the problems faced by BP4 in forming a sakinah family in KUA, Ciamis District, Ciamis Regency. Knowing BP4's actions in solving problems in the formation of sakinah families in KUA, Ciamis District, Ciamis Regency. The method used in this research is descriptive method, which is a research method that is directed to solve problems that occur at this time, by presenting the results of the research as they are. This is based on a study conducted by researchers, namely to describe the role of BP4 in forming a sakinah family. The conclusion of this study, the role of BP4 in forming a sakinah family is as follows, 1) The role of BP4 in forming a sakinah family will be felt by the community if it is not underestimated. As divorces are rampant, the role of BP4 in this case is very important, its performance must be improved again, so that the community can feel the existence of this institution. 2) The problem faced by BP4 Ciamis Subdistrict in implementing its programs to form a sakinah family is the lack of public understanding of the role of BP4 in the formation of a sakinah family. Socialization runs naturally, meaning that there is no special socialization about institutions. There are no binding rules for prospective brides in the form of sanctions if they do not carry out prenuptial guidance. 3) BP4 Ciamis Subdistrict's actions on the problems faced in the formation of the sakinah family in its implementation provide marriage guidance to prospective brides about marriage, thalak and referencing either individually or in groups. However, the role of BP4 in KUA Ciamis District has not been optimal because even though there is guidance or delivery of information about BP4 at the recitations of the t'alim assembly and related events, in this case there is no enthusiasm from the community. They feel that they have not benefited from the existence of BP4.

References

Abdurrahim, Ahmad. (2015). Aku Terima Nikahnya. Jakarta Timur: Istanbul.
Anonimous (2002). Modul Pembinaan Keluarga Sakinah. Dirjen Bimas dan Penyelenggaraan Haji. Depag. RI.
Anonimous (2002). Pegangan Calon Pengantin. Dirjen Bimas Islam Depag RI. Jakarta.
Anonimous (2007). Al-qur’an Wanita. Departemen Agama. Bogor
Auli, Nuansa Tim Redaksi. (2015). Kompilasi Hukum Islam. (Edisi ke-6). Bandung: CV. Nuansa Aulia.
Ayun Permana, Acep. (2009). Peranan BP4 dalam Membina Keluarga Sakinah (study Analisis di KUA Kecamatan Cihideung Kota Tasikmalaya). Ciamis: IAID Ciamis.
Basyarahil, Abdul Aziz Salim. (1994). Tuntunan Pernikahan dan Perkawinan. Depok: Gema Insani.
Bisri, Cik Hasan. (2001). Penuntun Penyusunan Rencana Penelitian dan Penulisan Skripsi. Cetakan Pertama. Jakarta: Pt Grapindo Persada.
BP4 Menyiasati Zaman. (2009). Perkawinan dan Keluarga. Majalah Bulanan No.442, hal.5-13. Jakarta: BP4 Pusat.
Januar, Iwan. (2007). Bukan Pernikahan Cinderella. Jakarta: Gema Insani.
Juheri, Dedeng. (2018). Serumah Sesurga. Yogyakarta: Pro-U Media.
Keluarga Sakinah di antara Meningkatnya Perceraian. (2011). Perkawinan dan Keluarga. Majalah Bulanan No.466, hal. 3-7. Jakarta: BP4 Pusat.
Lestari, Sri. (2012). Psikologi Keluarga. Cetakan Ke Satu. Jakarta: Kencana Prenadamedia Group.
Machrus, Adib. (Eds). (2018). Fondasi Keluarga Sakinah. Dirjen Bimas Islam RI. Jakarta.
Menjadikan Rumah Tangga Syurga Dunia. (2010). Perkawinan dan Keluarga. Majalah Bulanan No.457, hal. 19-21 Jakarta: BP4 Pusat.
Menjaga Kelestarian Keluarga. (2011). Perkawinan dan Keluarga. Majalah Bulanan No.468, hal. 22-24. Jakarta: BP4 Pusat.
Menyoal Dampak Selingkuh. (2012). Perkawinan dan Keluarga. Majalah Bulanan No.470, hal. 10. Jakarta: BP4 Pusat.
Peran dan Tantangan BP4. (2012). Perkawinan dan Keluarga. Majalah Bulanan No.480, hal. BP4 Pusat.
Persiapan Menuju Pernikahan. (2010). Perkawinan dan Keluarga. Majalah Bulanan No.454, hal. 21-23. Jakarta: BP4 Pusat.
Rizki Amalian, Nurul. (2018). Peran dan Upaya Badan Penasehatan, Pembinaan dan Pelestarian Perkawinan (BP4) dalam Mendidik Masyarakat Mewujudkan Keluarga Sakinah (Studi di BP4 Danurejan). Pendidikan Luar Sekolah, 7, 127.
Saebani, Beni Ahmad . (2001). Fiqih Munakahat. Bandung: CV Pustaka Setia.
Sahrani, Sobari & Tihami. (2013). Fikih munakahat. Jakarta: PT Grafindo Persada.
Seni Merawat Pernikahan. (2011). Perkawinan dan Keluarga. Majalah Bulanan No.464, hal. 20-21. Jakarta: BP4 Pusat.
ABDUH, M. Arrafie. Eksistensi Tharîqat Ni’mat al-Lâhiyyah dalam Syi’ah. TAJDID, [S.l.], v. 23, n. 2, jan.
ABDUH, Muhammad Arrafie. Gender dalam Paradigma Sufisme. TAJDID, [S.l.], v. 25, n. 1, p. 53-72, june 2018. ISSN 2621-8259. Available at: . doi: https://doi.org/10.36667/tajdid.v25i1.344
ABDURRAHMAN, M.. Hadis dalam Perspektif Sunni dan Syiah Imamiyah. TAJDID, [S.l.], v. 24, n. 2, sep. 2017. ISSN 2621-8259. Available at:
BISRI, H.Hasan. Corak Ijtihad Syi’ah Imamiyah Pasca Kegaiban Imam Mahdi. TAJDID, [S.l.], v. 23, n. 2, jan. 2017. ISSN 2621-8259. Available at:
BISRI, H.Hasan. Negara Religius: Konsep Wilâyat Al-Faqîh Imam Khomeini dalam Sistem Kenegaraan Iran. TAJDID, [S.l.], v. 24, n. 1, feb. 2017. ISSN 2621-8259. Available at:
BISRI, Hasan. Hukum Islam dan Perubahan Sosial: Telaah atas Ijtihâd Fardi dan Jamâ’i. TAJDID, [S.l.], v. 26, n. 2, p. 187-214, oct. 2019. ISSN 2621-8259. Available at: . doi: https://doi.org/10.36667/tajdid.v26i2.314.
BISRI, Hasan. Khomeini’s Concept of Wilâyat Al-Faqîh and Its Influence on the Contemporary Indonesian Islamic Thought. TAJDID, [S.l.], v. 25, n. 1, p. 33-52, june 2018. ISSN 2621-8259. Available at: . doi: https://doi.org/10.36667/tajdid.v25i1.351
BISRI, Hasan. Pengembagan Metode Pengajaran Tafsir di Pesantren. TAJDID, [S.l.], v. 26, n. 1, p. 59-74, may 2019. ISSN 2621-8259. Available at: . doi: https://doi.org/10.36667/tajdid.v26i1.328.
HUSNI, Husni. Konsep Ihsân dalam Wacana Pendidikan Islam. TAJDID, [S.l.], v. 26, n. 1, p. 1-12, june 2019. ISSN 2621-8259. Available at: . doi: https://doi.org/10.36667/tajdid.v26i1.317.
IMAN, Fauzul. Konsep Qiyâs dan Maslahah dalam Ijtihad Muhammad Rasyid Ridla. TAJDID, [S.l.], v. 26, n. 2, p. 143-168, oct. 2019. ISSN 2621-8259. Available at: . doi: https://doi.org/10.36667/tajdid.v26i2.334.
ISMAIL, Ismail. Pembaruan Hukum Islam di Indonesia. TAJDID, [S.l.], v. 26, n. 2, p. 215-230, oct. 2019. ISSN 2621-8259. Available at: . doi: https://doi.org/10.36667/tajdid.v26i2.331.
KHARLIE, Ahmad Tholabi. Literatur Pembelajaran Fiqh di Pondok Pesantren Propinsi Banten. TAJDID, [S.l.], v. 26, n. 1, p. 75-99, may 2019. ISSN 2621-8259. Available at: . doi: https://doi.org/10.36667/tajdid.v26i1.320.
KHARLIE, Ahmad Tholabi. Metode Tafsir Muhammad Abduh dan Muhammad Rasyid Ridha dalam Tafsîr Al-Manâr. TAJDID, [S.l.], v. 25, n. 2, p. 119-140, aug. 2018. ISSN 2621-8259. Available at: . doi: https://doi.org/10.36667/tajdid.v25i2.323.
MASDUKI, Masduki. Dampak Tafsir Muhammad ‘Abduh terhadap Tafsir-Tafsir Sesudahnya. TAJDID, [S.l.], v. 25, n. 2, p. 141-154, aug. 2018. ISSN 2621-8259. Available at: . doi: https://doi.org/10.36667/tajdid.v25i2.324.
MUHAMMAD, Afif. Radikalisme Islam dalam Sejarah Indonesia Modern. TAJDID, [S.l.], v. 24, n. 2, sep. 2017. ISSN 2621-8259. Available at:
NURROHMAN, Nurrohman. Syari’at Islam dan Hukum Nasional: Problematika Transformasi dan Integrasi Hukum Islam ke dalam Hukum Nasional. TAJDID, [S.l.], v. 26, n. 2, p. 231-244, oct. 2019. ISSN 2621-8259. Available at: . doi: https://doi.org/10.36667/tajdid.v26i2.333.
SUPENA, Ilyas. Paradigma Fiqh Multikultural. TAJDID, [S.l.], v. 26, n. 2, p. 169-186, oct. 2019. ISSN 2621-8259. Available at: . doi: https://doi.org/10.36667/tajdid.v26i2.335.
YUSUF, M.S.. Penggunaan Ilmu Munâsabah dalam Istinbâth Hukum. TAJDID, [S.l.], v. 26, n. 2, p. 117-142, oct. 2019. ISSN 2621-8259. Available at: . doi: https://doi.org/10.36667/tajdid.v26i2.332.